"I deleted her, sorry to say, "I deleted her because she made it seem like we were a couple!. Changing her Status to, ..in a relationship was blown out of context!. Something like that would have caused problems later on, through later experiences." "Usually a date means, getting to know you, not in any way a commitment."
"And yet--- still there are more than three woman------that I am talking too right now." "though, I would like to make clear that, when I say date, `I am getting to know someone and in no way is it a commitment."
"Hence my determined sense to know what I already know through prior experiences, `though there are woman that would love to be with me, however, `I would like to go through dates first." "O.K, then, neenig------i`ll make it ever-----easier----by mentioning what I am looking for."
"There are things that make me comfortable and uncomfortable, with good reasons I added."
"I am uncomfortable with."
1. When it is mentioned in your status you are in a relationship with me, `in the eve of agreeing you are willing to go out on a first date.
2. Id rather not know about your criminal past or what your doing in court, that's your business, `as long as you don`t try to kill me later.
3. Don`t get to excited, `because you will want me to much----you might go crazy and get institutionalized.
4. Must not have any Std`s or be a hooker. Or at least not anymore.
5. Please no cocaine users or anyone that shoots-up drugs, needles, pills, drinks, because I cant afford to feed your habit or watch you foam from the mouth or run & twitch across the street because you can`t get a fix .
6. Don`t be afraid to tell me about your past, and don`t wait until were in the delivery room, because that happened to me with my x girlfriend.
7. It`s O.k to ask for my phone number only after the first date, not before, because I already know what you sound like, i`d rather get the full special effect-----when I first meet you..
8. Please tell me in advance if you got false teeth or not, and not let me know a few months down the line.
9. No stalkers please or schizophrenic psycho paths that will follow my every move, because i`ll end up seeing the friend you sent pretending to shop, but really she wanted to ride me instead. And besides I Sent two to jail already.......
10. No ex Girlfriends or companions, you ant got a shot at this anymore. Regardless of what was is no more. Get over it........
11. No tights, only if I really know you, and you gotta be in style ay, no leg warmers, sown leggings at the jeans, to many clothes, or stuffed bra`s, or tomboy`s. no runners, or hooker boots..
12. No snorers please!.
Here are my comforts
1. Tattoo`s are O.k - in fact I went out with several woman that had Tattoo`s. I also think piercings are cool and Body Art`s are very cool.
2. I was pretty skinny for many years in my life. When I was young I had a hard time gaining weight, so that perspective is the same, as a person that was fat. I also had a hard time losing the weight, so I hold no judgment in that regard, This experience brings a pretty good understanding about weight!. So to my conclusion about what I would feel comfortable with, `would be the exact same weight at the present, `someone just like me.
Take a look at the pic`s and the shape of my body!. My arms are well toned, muscular, ripped, like my shoulders, and legs!. You will have the same. But----I don`t want my girl friend to look like conan, naw, `i`m looking for toned and fit, because we would share equal energy in what we both are.
3. You must listen to my music and like it, because if you don`t like what I have created, `there will be a conflict later in the relationship, you either support me or you don`t. The Picture of a great relationship would have a common like in music. 80-90% of the time, I will be listening, `and doing my thing, `I would rather turn into dust than do anything else. That`s how much I love it.........
4. I like woman that can really laugh , `and that can also trigger that emotional laugh deep inside themselves and control it at the same time, you know. And know when its enough, rather than the point to being irritated. Not huff, huff, huff type of laugh, `but a not so close to a giggle, `or a hoarse laugh, and definitely not a gurgle laugh, smokers laugh like theirs a clog of flem stuck in the throat just rolling towards the opening of the mouth. You can literally hear that!..........That`s the one thing that sticks in your mind when your doing the deed........(I hope the thing does`t splash my face)
5. Food, `you must love food----as well, I like pizza, hot stuff--like jalapeno`s, (pop`s) Chinese foods, Burger`s, fries, milkshakes, T.V dinners, I just love those space-sicles, these popsicles are the things that make anything worth while!. When I go out, I will always get a space-sicle.
6. Anything in regards to having children will not be talked about, because at these stages of any relationship, that does`t even come to mind, `to early, `remember this is date, not a life time hook-up!.
7. I mentioned earlier I like Movies......The kind of movies I like are Action Films, Comedy, and i`m gonna be honest about romance films man, i really don`t feel comfortable watching romance movies because i`m a guy. I love it in music and all that but--------watching them on a date is like ahhhh, neenagoosh!......I like to laugh, not get depressed. But, emotion films with dignity, honor, you know, I like that stuff. I don`t mind cop movies, even though I don`t like cop`s because most of them-------------- I have encountered are corrupt----------(and i`m a security officer by trade to ay)-----I`ll still watch them!.
`One of my good goals in life was to start my own police/Security force and catch all the bad cops, `as stated in most of my Security interviews." "That`s one of the thing`s about being a First Nations Man trying to do something like this....They will do anything to get you down, `but you gotta keep your head up...........and keep on doing good no matter what, don`t let anyone discourage you from doing good......
8. Nationality?. Hey, `I have an Anti-racism site, only reason why I mention this is because I take hits for standing up for those that can`t, and they share common experiences ----------------your Nationality Lovely lady is wonderful to me. I see, `Indian, First Nations, Caucasian, Chinese, Japanese, black--------I`ll accept dates from all......(I also got great tunes there, and links-------)
9. Now religion. If your religious, christian, i don`t mind, `but keep in mind that i`m First Nations and my ancestors were badly abused by Christians, and that devastated First Nations people. Like being called Canadian is an insult, because were First Nations and we are a different Nation!. `We are not Canadians, we are First Nations.....And those that have called us, and are still calling us Canadians should apologize for that as well---no different than another form of abuse!.
10. If you are in tough times or have a job, I know all about that!. And have the experience, fret not because I will not judge you because of that. If your still sleeping on your mattress that's fine, and have bed sheets over your windows that's fine too, naaa, just kidding.,...
11. You must be really nice in behavior, and be like that---really!. I really like someone in a good mood all the time, someone who smiles constantly, `not like the joker or anything, but someone that has a relaxed smile.
12. Someone who looks like a real woman, and not a man, `classy, `and preferably has some cash to support herself, and not a struggling mom looking for a man to support her kids ay....
13. Someone secure and getting secure everyday!. Keep in mind when your dating and getting to know someone, there is a transfer of energy, so that`s important. Don`t wanna be carrying your bad before`s and that come`s in different ways.
14. No more accept me for who i am`s because that`s just not gonna go anywhere, your already wrong for me by saying that.
15. Change, I am never gonna change, only finding the common person that I will be compatible with. Your gonna see me turn to dust before that happens, but, i`ll still be alive......nnaaaaaa, `hey you know what i mean...
16. You gotta love yourself to ay!. because if you don`t love yourself your not loving me, and if your not satisfied and accept yourself your hurting yourself..........your gonna hurt me in the process. Self esteem baby, your gonna get us both down if that is so!. Being an introvert and an extrovert is good!. because your getting everything and making a good healthy person for your self and for me!.
17. communication is very good!. I`m quiet because i`m aboriginal First Nations, yes, because I have knowledge, see read!. getting quiet and vindictive attitudes?. You probably deserve it because you did that to someone. Sometimes, and sometimes not, resentment because of it?. who knows unless you say something, but if its making matters worse then there is obvious fear of seeing it for what it is!.
18. O.k, that`s just the beginning, and anymore dates after this, will be interesting!.
"Remember, "still single and still dating."
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